guys: Stop Trying so Hard to Impress Women!

Perhaps you have found out the hard way
that trying to impress women we consider
hot and se'xy does not help. Perhaps you
are still on your journey to discovery.
Many men try too hard to impress ladies
in the hope of getting them to like them
and later, perhaps get into bed with them.
What they do not know is that being too
nice to a woman, agreeing with everything
she says, and being too accommodating
actually pushes you further from her.
So called hot girls usually know what you
will do before you do it. Many a time, it
will take being different or offsetting her
usual expectation to 'catch her eye.'
Being spineless, predictable and obedient
to her every whim only tells her how
weak, needy, boring and inferior you are
to her.
Once you expose her 'superiority' over
you through your actions, she will take
that position and actually live it. You will
then be perpetually out of her league.
So how do you avoid making the mistakes
many men make?
Treat her like you would any other person.
No preferential treatment!
The need to be 'yourself' cannot be over
emphasized in this case. Disagree with
her when you need to and make
suggestions of your own.
Avoid complimenting her on her physical
beauty and suckling up to her.
That is not to say you should become a
complete jerk. Disagree with her in a
reasonable way and make your position
clear without becoming a bully.
You may even tease and poke fun at her
sometimes.
So treat her like any other person and be
you. That way, she doesn't gain the
advantage of the higher ground where she
gets to predict your every move and
control affairs. She also gets to see the
real you and how different you are from
the pack of men she comes across daily.
Have a nice day.